Wheels of Power

This is the Duluth model of the Wheel of Equality.
It sets out a clear picture of the dynamics of equality in intimate relationships.

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“In life, many men and women simply crave to set up a life-long caring partnership, to build a home together and to live securely, happily ever after.” Clare Murphy

But it’s not always easy to make that dream a reality.

The Wheel is a useful monitoring tool for keeping your relationship on the right track.

Not everyone is safe and free

Here are some questions for women who are in a relationship with a man.

Can you answer ‘yes’ to these questions?

1. I trust this man 100%
2. He respects me totally without a doubt
3. He’s always honest and I feel completely safe to be honest with him
4. He definitely respects my privacy
5. I feel totally free to be myself round him anywhere anytime
6. I adamantly feel safe with him – always

Be honest with yourself.

If you answered ‘no’ to these questions – it is very probable you are with a man that is engaged in a slow process of gaining more and more emotional control over you and your life.

With thanks to Clare Murphy, link here.

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